Slow and Steady Wins the Body Reshaping Race

The reason many of us fail at having the bodies we want is that it’s hard work. There is no magic pill or patch. We have to put in the work and control what we ingest. Why are we so weak? We expect quick results, when, trite but true, slow and steady does win the race.

Lose 2 pounds a month for 2 years and you are 50 pounds lighter.

50 pounds lighter!

Can’t wait 2 years? Wow. You took a lot more years than that to put those pounds on. How do you expect to drop them so quickly.

And, look, 2 pounds a month is nothing. You could really go at it with diet and exercise and safely lose 4, 6, even 8 pounds a month.

How about this plan. You go “all in” for 2 months, get into the swing of things, but, then, at the point where you would normally just say “screw it”, and go back to being lazy and undisciplined, you simply back off a bit.

(NOTE: You may find that this time around, you don’t want to back off. You love what you are doing and the results are keeping you motivated. Keep going!)

If you’ve been really hitting the diet and exercise thing for a couple months, you should have a pretty good idea of what you can eat to be healthier. You should have a decent feel for how much exercise it takes to be more fit.

But if you’ve decided by the 2-month mark that this lifestyle is not for you right now, don’t go back to your old habits. Keep some of the good habits you’ve developed.

Maybe during your 2 months you gave up all fast food. Hey, now, that’s a great idea! You used to eat 7 meals a week at fast food places, now you are eating none. You could go back to your old ways, but do you have to?

Maybe during your 2 months you took a 2-mile walk every morning. Nice start to a fitness plan! You used to just sit and watch tv every morning before work, now you’re moving. You could go back to the tv, but do you have to?

It’s pretty obvious to me that fitness isn’t for everyone. All I have to do is look around to see that. But if you are reading this, you must have something inside you that wants you to improve yourself.

Maybe this isn’t your time to go “all in” for fitness.

I went through many stops and restarts on my way to being fully involved in my own fitness. Finally, something clicked in my mind, and I know now I will never go back.

If you are not there yet mentally, take your move to fitness in smaller steps. Slowly, steadily, you will win this race.

Getting to your Fitness Tipping Point

It’s the middle of February, which means you should be about 6 weeks into your 2012 fitness plan.

You are still on your fitness plan, right?

Hey, I’m not here to nag you and I’m not here to motivate you. Only you can motivate yourself, and with every plan to do something good for yourself — something good that involves discomfort or denial of pleasure, like getting fit (or more fit), quitting smoking, abandoning sugar —  it takes some getting used to.

Every plan also comes with a Tipping Point.

What’s the tipping point? It’s that place in your life when you are striving for a goal and … suddenly … you realize this is no longer a part-time thing, but an actual regular part of your life.

Sometimes the tipping point comes abruptly. That’s how it was for me and sugar. I really had nothing against sugar, although I was consuming less of it, because I was well into watching what I ate. But I would still go on the occasional donut or cupcake or half-a-okay-who-am-I-kidding-whole-German-chocolate-cake-with-coconut-pecan-frosting binge.

Then one day I just said to myself, “Wow, sugar really is poison for me,” and that was it. I stopped eating it.

Most of the time, though, the tipping point comes more gradually.

I am not sure when my gotta-get-a-workout-in tipping point occurred, but I was reminded yesterday that it had occurred. I was emailing with a friend of mine, and I was describing the particularly busy day I’d had. She asked, “Did you get your workout in?”

My answer was that I had, because at some point in my life I had prioritized my workout, so it would take a lot for me to miss it. I had passed the working-out tipping point.

I really don’t know when that happened, but I am glad it did.

We often, in our lives, respond to a lack of action with a curt, “I just don’t have time.” But the old adage is true: We all have the same amount of time, it’s just a matter of how we decide to fill it.

If it is truly more important for you to do something else in place of getting fit, then you have not reached your fitness tipping point. I only hope that you’ll get there, though, before some kind of serious health issue makes you re-examine your decisions.

People get way too hung up on age

I just read a status update on Facebook about someone being (jokingly) upset that someone else had exposed her age.

This is actually quite a common reaction among people — especially women for some reason — but why is it even a factor in our way of thinking?

There are only a few ages we really need to care about in the United States.

  • 5-years-old – Start school
  • 16-years-old – Get a driver’s license
  • 18-years-old – Vote
  • 21-years-old – Legally drink alcohol

That’s about it.

Outside those ages — except maybe 50-years-old, when it’s time to start getting colonoscopies (yikes!), and 40-years-old for women and mammograms — nothing else matters.

So why are we so obsessed with age?

This obsession can paralyze us, because, yes, as we get older, we do seem to have more medical problems. The problem is that we just tend to accept this fact: Older = More Medical Problems.

  • Of course I have high blood pressure. I am old! (That was me.)
  • Of course I am overweight. I am old! (That was me.)
  • Of course I have type 2 diabetes. I am old! (That was almost me.)

ENOUGH!

Stop using “old” as an excuse. Your body may not be as resilient at it used to be, and you may need to take it a little easier — at least at first — but you can still push it.

Even if you can’t move very well, put down the donuts and ice cream and start eating right. Turn the damn tv off and get some steps in.

I tell you this stuff, because that was me! I was at the point where I knew I needed to get into better shape, but I thought I was just too old.

I was not too old to get fit and neither are you.

Yes, as we hang around this planet longer, something is bound to creep up on us. But it’s time to stop worrying about what you can’t help, and start doing something about what you can — and stop worrying about your age already!

What is your fitness plan for 2012? Here’s mine.

Okay, so this is all about me, but it’s my blog, right? I can’t very well write about you.

But here’s the thing: I’m no uber-muscular gym rat; I’m no triathlete. I’m just a regular guy who wants to be fit, so my hope is that you can take the things that I do in my life and apply them to yours.

My fitness quest continues into 2012 — it’s going on 5 years now — and while I have surely come a long way, I still have a long way to go. I am pretty sure, for example, that I could lose 15 pounds and feel good about it.

Those are some tough pounds, though, those last 15.

The first 45 pounds were not so hard for me to lose, pretty much diet only, and not an overly rigid one to maintain it.

The next 15 were more difficult, but I managed to lose ’em with exercise.

But these last 15, wow, tough. I’ve been trying to lose them for a year and a half now. Admittedly, I haven’t been trying that hard, because, as I said, I’m no fitness fanatic. So, the time has come to give it a real go, but not at the whole 15 (which maybe should even be 20 — I dunno).

I’m going to shoot for 10 pounds. On June 30, 2012, I would like to weigh 10 pounds less than I do right now, and, because maintaining the weight loss is key, on December 31, 2012, I would like to weigh the same as I did on June 30. Or less would be okay, too.

Ultimately, I really only want to lose fat, not muscle, and weight measures both, right?

I feel comfortable, however, using weight to quantify my goal, because I know that because I’ll be working out my entire body, the vast majority of the weight I lose will be fat. If I do put on some muscle, well, that’s all the more fat I’ll need to lose to reach the goal.

Okay, so now that I have a goal, how do I plan to reach it?

The plan will have to involve calorie restriction and exercise. Of course. There are no magic potions or formulas and liposuction is just too expensive and downright gross, not to mention that when it’s over, your body is now in an unnatural state, so I don’t like the idea of it.

HOW MANY CALORIES DO WE NEED?

There is a really nice calculator right here to let you know about how many calories you need every day to maintain your current weight.

A good rule of thumb is to subtract 500 from that if you want to lose weight.

NUTRITION

I’m going to shoot for around 2000 calories a day comprising 50% protein, 30% carbs, and 20% fat. That will mean a lot of fish and chicken breasts for the protein and a good supply of vegetables and fruit for the carbs. The fat will primarily come from meats, nuts and seeds, egg yolks, and avocados.

I will minimize

  • Any foods that were created to satisfy a sweet tooth. I banished all these foods from my diet almost two years ago and have not turned back, so this part will be easy for me.
  • Grains, such as wheat, corn, oats, and rice. I’ve gone entirely without these “foods” for 6 months, so this should be okay for me. I currently only have maybe 15-20% of the grain intake I used to, so this should not be too hard for me.
  • Fatty foods in general, and fatty dairy products specifically. I truly believe there is something about dairy fat that allows my body to store it more easily than other fats. When I go through my periods of massive brie consumption — I do love me some brie — I gain weight. This may simply be a too-many-calories thing, but suffice to say that I’ll be leaving full-fat cheeses off my shopping lists. 2% is fine. Fat-free yogurt is fine.

I will maximize

  • Lean proteins like fish, chicken breasts, and egg whites. I am glad that I have figured out good ways to prepare and eat chicken breast — which I don’t really care for — because fish is too expensive for me to eat it all the time. I’ll also throw a few turkey burgers into the mix.
  • Raw and frozen vegetables and fruit. Mostly vegetables, because the fruit carbs add up quickly. The fruits will primarily be frozen berries consumed as part of a protein smoothie or in fat-free yogurt.
  • Sugar-free protein powders. I started using protein powder supplements when I first went on a 50/30/20 diet. It’s very difficult to eat that much protein, so a supplement is a must for me.

I will also document everything I eat in a series of spreadsheets, one per day. I have found that this is the only accurate way to track my food intake. Without writing it all down, too many little food items — the kind that often add up to big calories — fall through the cracks.

I also have a small food scale that I’ll use to accurately measure portions.

Is the 50/30/20 diet necessary? Probably not. 40/40/20 or 40/30/30 would be okay, too, as long as the calories are right. But I’m shooting for 50/30/20, so if I fall a bit short on protein, I’m still within what I consider acceptable levels.

EXERCISE

I’m going to start the year with a round of good old Insanity with Shaun T. I have a lot of new yoga DVDs, too, so I will be sprinkling those in.

That will last through January and February and on into March.

At that point I will be really itching to start P90X2, so, after a week of yoga, I’ll do that program.

That should take me all the way through June. On June 30, I’ll do my weigh-in to see if I reached my goal of losing 10 pounds, and decide where to go from there.

The way I document my workouts, btw, is in my Google calendar. I set up a separate calendar for Workouts, then I just add my workouts as I complete them. This is also a must for me, because I like to know what I’ve done to get where I am, and, yeah, it’s hard to remember day-to-day, what I’ve done. Not as necessary when participating in an organized program like Insanity or P90X2, but I’ll put the workouts in there anyway to stay in the habit.

DO YOU HAVE FITNESS GOALS FOR 2012?

If you’d like to join me this year, like my Facebook page, and I’ll let you know when I blog, as well as send out little motivators every so often. Our goals don’t need to mesh, nor do our fitness plans, but perhaps within our little community, we can help each other keep going.

If you’d like to order Insanity or P90X2 or any other Beachbody product, email me about it or order it yourself through my Team Beachbody page. It costs you nothing extra, and, yeah, I do get a little kickback when you order through me. Hey, I gotta fund my fitness DVD and equipment habit somehow!

New Year’s fitness resolution?

The new year is almost upon us, and many of us will make resolutions to lose weight, get into better shape.

And … many of us will never follow through on them.

Oh, sure, we’ll get some new running shoes and hit the road or treadmill on January 2nd, but things will come up, or running will be too difficult, or we’ll get injured, or … and that will be the end of that.

Oh, sure, we’ll buy 30 — no, 60 — days of a mail order diet plan, and we’ll stick to it the first few days, but that will become inconvenient, or the meals won’t taste that good, or, dammit we’re hungry … and that will be the end of that.

What is it about humans that we form these great plans to do things we know we should do, but then, at the first sign of adversity or inconvenience, we give up?

How do we continue to live with ourselves after we’ve let ourselves down like that? Here we are, still 30 or 40 or 60 or 80 or 100 pounds overweight with high blood pressure and no breath after walking up a flight of steps. We know what we need to do … but we don’t do it. What the hell is wrong with us?

I can only speak for myself, and for me the answer was that I felt I was just too old to get fit.

Heck, when I was in my early 20s and my pants got a little tight, I could go on a low-carb diet and lose weight fast. No exercise, pounds melted off.

As I got older, my body reacted slower to changes I made. I didn’t see results as fast, so I quickly lost interest in what I was doing. Whatever it was — diet, exercise program — it obviously did not work, and it did not work because I was too old. Look around? How many men 40-plus-year-old men are in shape? Something happens as we age, I reasoned, that makes it impossible to get fit.

Well, maybe not impossible with a little help, but I wonder how many copies of Tony Horton or Shaun T or Chalene exercise programs have been ordered, but only little, if ever, used. Do you have one … somewhere?

Part of the problem may be that we have no great incentive, because we have not had the significant emotional experience that helps keep us on track.

We have not had the heart attack or the divorce or the diabetes diagnosis that makes our health and fitness issues more real to us. We’re not perfect, but we’re okay, and, well, those chocolate cake donuts from Dunkin do taste pretty good.

Another piece of the problem is that we often set our sights too high.

Sure, we want to lose 50 pounds, but why do we do that to ourselves? 50 is great as a long-term goal, but for the short term, it is impossible. Why not start with 10 pounds, or an inch and a half off the waist, some number that is more manageable? Once we accomplish that, then move on to the next 10 pounds or inch-and-a-half.

My personal quest for fitness has taken a slow road. I lost a lot of weight with diet and a little walking. Then I added more walking along with some pushups, pullups, and crunches. Then I got into P90X, and from there into Insanity. Now I do workouts from both those programs, plus some I made up myself, and yoga.

I’ve been at it for more than four years now, and I still have a way to go to reach my final fitness goals, but I am not too discouraged.

After all, I’ve seen great results in body shape, my blood tests show severely reduced levels of bad cholesterol and triglycerides, and my blood pressure is normal after many years of being way too high. I am on no longer on medications of any kind. I may never reach my final fitness goals, but those kinds of results keep me going.

How about you? What kind of results will keep you going?

It’s another new year. How about this year we make our fitness resolutions, as usual, set long-term but also short-term results-oriented goals, and then commit ourselves to reaching them. This approach should lead us to greater success, and, as the saying goes, nothing breeds success like success.